Wow. Thanks for writing this piece, William.

It underscores for me a particular understanding of love between men, one for which the label "sexual orientation" is entirely inadequate. We aren't homosexuals because we are men who have sex with men; we are homosexuals because we love men. Even gay guys seem to forget that. It ain't just wanting to suck cock that makes you gay; it's that drive to be intimate, to be vulnerable, on various levels, with a man.

Deke