Submitted by MyLoCo9 (not verified) on June 8, 2009 - 23:34.
Ugh...I always love the line: "If you are looking for a relationship and only finding people who want to hook up, perhaps you are looking in the wrong place", and all its variations.
No offense to the author...but when people toss off that hoary old chestnut, my visceral response is "So where the f*ck should I be looking?!?"
Granted, I remember the Age Before the Internet, when it was slightly more honest to go out and cruise in person, unlike many times now when it's like watching people order from the gay take-out menu: "I want a penis from Column A, looks from Column B, ass from Column C", etc.
No, there isn't anywhere online where you can go to a "M4MCuddleMovieAtHome" chat room, just as there isn't a guarantee of success if you went out to the bars or gay volleyball game to meet who you want.
Finding "the one" tends to be a crapshoot many times, and many men aim for finding "the right now" because it satiates the need, because they don't know where to look, are tired of looking, or because they don't care to look.
It would be more useful, ultimately, if we could be honest with each other...more honest than the "mainstream" orientation has been with us, in what we really need to keep us happy. Until we band together as men, rather than generally treat each other as disposable penises/rectums, t'aint gonna happen.
Ugh...I always love the line:
Ugh...I always love the line: "If you are looking for a relationship and only finding people who want to hook up, perhaps you are looking in the wrong place", and all its variations.
No offense to the author...but when people toss off that hoary old chestnut, my visceral response is "So where the f*ck should I be looking?!?"
Granted, I remember the Age Before the Internet, when it was slightly more honest to go out and cruise in person, unlike many times now when it's like watching people order from the gay take-out menu: "I want a penis from Column A, looks from Column B, ass from Column C", etc.
No, there isn't anywhere online where you can go to a "M4MCuddleMovieAtHome" chat room, just as there isn't a guarantee of success if you went out to the bars or gay volleyball game to meet who you want.
Finding "the one" tends to be a crapshoot many times, and many men aim for finding "the right now" because it satiates the need, because they don't know where to look, are tired of looking, or because they don't care to look.
It would be more useful, ultimately, if we could be honest with each other...more honest than the "mainstream" orientation has been with us, in what we really need to keep us happy. Until we band together as men, rather than generally treat each other as disposable penises/rectums, t'aint gonna happen.