"Why can’t I find a man serious about forming an intimate relationship"? Because everyone is only trolling for ass and in those pursuits, any true "husband material" that crosses their path they brush off as "not being their type", "being too far away", or what have you! As much of an ass I sound saying that, that's the cold, hard truth I've learned in my years of seeking a relationship.

In the 7 years I've been out, I've had a 2 year relationship. Yes, that's a good, long relationship; yes, that is an accomplishment for someone my age (21). But that's not what I'm looking for. I'm look for one that will stretch on and tap the Reaper's shoulder. Of course, and here's the REAL kicker, when I try expressing that to others in the gay community, I'm equated to a woman... Yeah, nothing like being called a pussy by your fellow gay man, is there?

I'm really sorry for sounding angry and jaded here, but that's the (very little) wisdom I've accumulated in my short lifespan.