Sadder even than age discrimination is the extremely high proportion of gay guys who do want "just a fuck". I do admit that I have been there, done that. But then I found love and realised that not just settling for, but deliberately and exclusively seeking casual sex is such a shallow, soulless existence. And where does it lead except to a lonely old age? Sex with love is 1000 times better but I'd be surprised if more than 2% of gay guys - at least on internet dating sites - are looking for a LTR. It's up to them of course. But there's little action on these sites for the likes of me who are looking for long term friendship that may lead to a relationship. Indeed one guy who contacted me for a casual meet even said I should delete my profile so that guys like him wouldn't be wasting their time contacting me!