Submitted by bearby (not verified) on April 18, 2009 - 11:47.
I longed for the comapssion of an older man and even to it tool me those odd 20 some thing years to find him I have never had a seriously uhappy day in our 23 years as a couple .
I began my searching back in high school ( yes even tho I was that young I had already decided that the benefits of having an older man as a mate would always over shadow the needs of those my own age ) .
Now it's not to say that I did not enjoy sampling the wares of those " boys " that would consider me as a sugar daddy along the way but I didn't want to be just a sugar daddy to them I wanted more !
I sure am glad I stuck to my guns on the fact that I was truly searching for my Mr. Right ( the older man I had always saught ) .
Now that I am getting into my gay golden years it's comforting to have had the same man beside me thru all the myrid issues of aging ie: mainly health issues for the both of us and his quadruple bypasssurgery and my own diagnosis of HIV .
Yet this 64year old man ( as compared to myself now being 49 years we are both young in our minds) has never faultered in his love and care for me as I have him as well and it's now to the point of acceptance that both our families have combined into one rather large nuclear family that accept's us with out fail no matter what ths situation but then us having been together this long I guess it just goes to show that we intend to stay together no matter what society throws at us .
So in other words age might be a big detractor for some of these newbies to the gay life those of us that are well seasoned know that they too will one day become just as we are and will have to endure the very same things they said that we were or are to them so to all you boys ( even bois ( now who came up with that big faux pas of spelling ?)) just choose your words carefully when not considering a man that could be old enough to be your father because one never knows does one that he just could be you one day and that day might hust come sooner than ya think !
I longed for the comapssion
I longed for the comapssion of an older man and even to it tool me those odd 20 some thing years to find him I have never had a seriously uhappy day in our 23 years as a couple .
I began my searching back in high school ( yes even tho I was that young I had already decided that the benefits of having an older man as a mate would always over shadow the needs of those my own age ) .
Now it's not to say that I did not enjoy sampling the wares of those " boys " that would consider me as a sugar daddy along the way but I didn't want to be just a sugar daddy to them I wanted more !
I sure am glad I stuck to my guns on the fact that I was truly searching for my Mr. Right ( the older man I had always saught ) .
Now that I am getting into my gay golden years it's comforting to have had the same man beside me thru all the myrid issues of aging ie: mainly health issues for the both of us and his quadruple bypasssurgery and my own diagnosis of HIV .
Yet this 64year old man ( as compared to myself now being 49 years we are both young in our minds) has never faultered in his love and care for me as I have him as well and it's now to the point of acceptance that both our families have combined into one rather large nuclear family that accept's us with out fail no matter what ths situation but then us having been together this long I guess it just goes to show that we intend to stay together no matter what society throws at us .
So in other words age might be a big detractor for some of these newbies to the gay life those of us that are well seasoned know that they too will one day become just as we are and will have to endure the very same things they said that we were or are to them so to all you boys ( even bois ( now who came up with that big faux pas of spelling ?)) just choose your words carefully when not considering a man that could be old enough to be your father because one never knows does one that he just could be you one day and that day might hust come sooner than ya think !