I agree with picard in some ways...the older one gets the less they become attractive to even our own age group...People seem to look for beauty on the outside instead of looking for what a person has to offer on the inside....beauty fades but the soul lasts forever.... i kow this seems a bit well for lack of a better word SAPPY...but its how i feel...get to know the total person and not the outer pkg...people are missing some really wonderful guys becase the don't fit the "LOOKS and SIZE" department. I myself care what is in a persons heart than more what is in there pants. ALL the rest is just window dressing.