If someone says to me that I'm "much too old" for him, I exchange a few more pleasantries and then end the conversation. Period.

I think younger men are lovely but when they're downright rude, I don't bother.

One of the things that makes younger men so self-centered is that people like the author of this post will still take them to dinner after they've said something inappropriate. Maybe some of us need to stop enabling stupid behavior like this no matter what our psychics tell us to do.