Damn bud...you hit the nail on the head. I read this blog and my first thought was that I've been nailed with ignorant and thoughtless comments from men of all ages. The more limits we put on ourselves, the smaller cage we force ourselves to live in. I'm 49, and the most important thing to me is a man's heart and mind. Finding a partner that is supportive, loving, respectful, a best friend, someone who will stand by you even when you're an asshole, and at the end of the day make love with or fuck your brains out, is an elusive but attainable goal. Put the walls down, keep the heart open and hopefully if you're lucky, a good, lasting and genuine love will come into your life.