The gay world is so diverse, there's something for everyone.
I am a total bottom and am seeking a total top. I agree with some of the writers here who spoke up in support of total tops and bottoms. Its just a preference the way many gay men prefer oral only. I wouldn't be happy as a versatile guy cos I have no interest in fucking someone. But I respect the preference of versatile men everywhere. Their preference is as valid as mine. I realize there are more versatile men than total A or total B. I'm glad that they have a larger pool to choose from. I have thought about my preference for some years as have many gay men. I concluded that I'm most happy as a total bottom and hope that other gay men would respect that and be happy for me. I think I'd be happiest with a total top not a vers top. Total tops are harder to find. But those are the men whom I seek. Hope there still a few good ones out there. Peace and love to everyone.