Submitted by Professional Gentleman (not verified) on April 17, 2009 - 05:37.
People label themselves for reasons we can never understand completely. I was predominately a top, but would bottom to return the favor. I just liked to fuck ass and was willing to give up mine in return. What I enjoyed was the intimacy of the sex. I beat off when they fucked me and I really enjoyed the climax after I got over the initial pain. I preferred to top and to suck dick. I let them suck me, but it only got me hard, I could not climax easily receiving oral sex. I had one poor thing suck me for three hours before I got off. He loved it, I was getting bored. It felt good, but it was wearing me out. I might have called it off, but he was so cute. Some total tops are that because they have never fallen in love and wanted to share total sexual intimacy with someone. When you are in love, you will do just about anything for your lover. I mean lover, not sex partner. Gay men are just as cought up in the sterotypes about sex as straight people are. Some think that if they take a dick up the ass, they are more gay than if they top. After all, they are doing the fucking. Let me tell you what a wise old friend of mine whose name was George said to me. He had the wisdom of the ages and he owned and ran a gay bar. Honey, if you take a dick up the ass or you stick your dick up a guy ass hole and like it, YOUR QUEER. If what you want is that guy sexually, then you have to play his game. If not, then just yell next and move on. There is some relief in the making. Today's younger urban gay man is more concerned about relationships, love, marriage and the future than the next orgasm. Then, who is top and bottom can switch or may remain predominately or totally one way. That is up to the parties. I may want to bottom now because of age or other personal preference. I am willing to give my self to my lover. I do resent him talking it before it is offered. There is nothing dirty about sex, it is just a three letter word. However, love, now there is a four letter word that is dirty from the beginning. More killing, hate and destruction of lives is done in the name of love than sex. People use the word love to get people to do all sorts of things that they would not normally do. All you can do is to stay away from the people who expect you to fulfill their shortcomings and sexual inadequacies. Total tops do not bother me if they are properly trained. If they are not, then go fuck a laytex ass hole, because you won't know how to treat this one attached to a real man who only wants your dick because it feels good and is attached to a person he cares about. Otherwise, I have ten or more of various sizes in the closet with as much emotion and caring as some total tops show. You just have to screen your prospective partners a little better. Me, I am getting up there in age (60) and at this age I am willing to make some allowances and to try to train them if they are willing to even make an attempt to learn. However, in defense of total tops, I do appreciate a hard dick and after I cum, I guess I lose interest in trying to fuck them, so I can live with it on a temporary basis. they just are not going to be the father of my children or the children we seem to be trying to make. Take care.
People label themselves for
People label themselves for reasons we can never understand completely. I was predominately a top, but would bottom to return the favor. I just liked to fuck ass and was willing to give up mine in return. What I enjoyed was the intimacy of the sex. I beat off when they fucked me and I really enjoyed the climax after I got over the initial pain. I preferred to top and to suck dick. I let them suck me, but it only got me hard, I could not climax easily receiving oral sex. I had one poor thing suck me for three hours before I got off. He loved it, I was getting bored. It felt good, but it was wearing me out. I might have called it off, but he was so cute. Some total tops are that because they have never fallen in love and wanted to share total sexual intimacy with someone. When you are in love, you will do just about anything for your lover. I mean lover, not sex partner. Gay men are just as cought up in the sterotypes about sex as straight people are. Some think that if they take a dick up the ass, they are more gay than if they top. After all, they are doing the fucking. Let me tell you what a wise old friend of mine whose name was George said to me. He had the wisdom of the ages and he owned and ran a gay bar. Honey, if you take a dick up the ass or you stick your dick up a guy ass hole and like it, YOUR QUEER. If what you want is that guy sexually, then you have to play his game. If not, then just yell next and move on. There is some relief in the making. Today's younger urban gay man is more concerned about relationships, love, marriage and the future than the next orgasm. Then, who is top and bottom can switch or may remain predominately or totally one way. That is up to the parties. I may want to bottom now because of age or other personal preference. I am willing to give my self to my lover. I do resent him talking it before it is offered. There is nothing dirty about sex, it is just a three letter word. However, love, now there is a four letter word that is dirty from the beginning. More killing, hate and destruction of lives is done in the name of love than sex. People use the word love to get people to do all sorts of things that they would not normally do. All you can do is to stay away from the people who expect you to fulfill their shortcomings and sexual inadequacies. Total tops do not bother me if they are properly trained. If they are not, then go fuck a laytex ass hole, because you won't know how to treat this one attached to a real man who only wants your dick because it feels good and is attached to a person he cares about. Otherwise, I have ten or more of various sizes in the closet with as much emotion and caring as some total tops show. You just have to screen your prospective partners a little better. Me, I am getting up there in age (60) and at this age I am willing to make some allowances and to try to train them if they are willing to even make an attempt to learn. However, in defense of total tops, I do appreciate a hard dick and after I cum, I guess I lose interest in trying to fuck them, so I can live with it on a temporary basis. they just are not going to be the father of my children or the children we seem to be trying to make. Take care.