Submitted by Butch Harris (not verified) on April 11, 2009 - 21:10.
Cyrus:
It sounds like you are less turned off by "total tops," than the manner in which these tops have approached you. I have never been interested in being fucked, and, at this stage in my sexual career, I doubt that I ever will. I don't think I'm more masculine or "less gay" or any such dysfunction (nor was I sexually abused as a child). I just don't find getting fucked appealing, and I make that clear upfront with my sexual partners -- always have.
I LIVE for guys who love to get fucked by me, and I do everything I can to make them -- and me -- get off. There are men who are tops, those who are bottoms, those who don't like sex at all, bi-sexuals, and then the catch-all versatile camp. I respect all those approaches to sexual behavior equally, and tend to shy away from guys who present themselves as versatile, as they will generally want to fuck you eventually, and get upset when you refuse (but, I have found, that bisexuals are some of the best fucks to be had by a top like me -- they want to get fucked, without reciprocation, I have found).
You, Cyrus, sound like a versatile guy who should probably seek out other versatiles and steer clear of tops. There are loads of "total bottoms" who LOVE "total tops." Believe me. :)
Butch Harris, Publisher
WEBs and VIDs Online!
Gay Erotica's Best Click! ® http://www.ManNet.com
Cyrus: It sounds like you are
Cyrus:
It sounds like you are less turned off by "total tops," than the manner in which these tops have approached you. I have never been interested in being fucked, and, at this stage in my sexual career, I doubt that I ever will. I don't think I'm more masculine or "less gay" or any such dysfunction (nor was I sexually abused as a child). I just don't find getting fucked appealing, and I make that clear upfront with my sexual partners -- always have.
I LIVE for guys who love to get fucked by me, and I do everything I can to make them -- and me -- get off. There are men who are tops, those who are bottoms, those who don't like sex at all, bi-sexuals, and then the catch-all versatile camp. I respect all those approaches to sexual behavior equally, and tend to shy away from guys who present themselves as versatile, as they will generally want to fuck you eventually, and get upset when you refuse (but, I have found, that bisexuals are some of the best fucks to be had by a top like me -- they want to get fucked, without reciprocation, I have found).
You, Cyrus, sound like a versatile guy who should probably seek out other versatiles and steer clear of tops. There are loads of "total bottoms" who LOVE "total tops." Believe me. :)
Butch Harris, Publisher
WEBs and VIDs Online!
Gay Erotica's Best Click! ®
http://www.ManNet.com