Submitted by chicken milk (not verified) on April 9, 2009 - 08:57.
silly machismo
"yet you label men that are total tops"
no, the author did not. men on this and every single other gay networking site I've visited or been a member of have labeled THEMSELVES as total tops. the author is simply describing a self-provided label, not providing one himself.
"Not every "total" top is as much of an ass, basket case, or wussy as you make us out to be."
for the love of literacy, you should really have read the entire article before responding to it. the author clearly describes tops he knows that are not as you claim he is describing.
I, for one, will never hook up with a total top for the following reason: he can have no personal experience of what it is I'd be going through as the bottom so as to make it as great as possible for me. I know guys that prefer to top and I know guys that simply refuse to ever be the bottom. aside from physical discomfort issues (which is certainly the case for some guys), the most articulate response I've received to my queries of 'why not' have been along the lines of 'I ain't gonna be no one's bitch'. transparently pointless and silly machismo to the core. but as the author pointed out, they're still as gay as I am, no matter how macho their self-wrought 'total top' image makes them out to be.
silly machismo "yet you label
silly machismo
"yet you label men that are total tops"
no, the author did not. men on this and every single other gay networking site I've visited or been a member of have labeled THEMSELVES as total tops. the author is simply describing a self-provided label, not providing one himself.
"Not every "total" top is as much of an ass, basket case, or wussy as you make us out to be."
for the love of literacy, you should really have read the entire article before responding to it. the author clearly describes tops he knows that are not as you claim he is describing.
I, for one, will never hook up with a total top for the following reason: he can have no personal experience of what it is I'd be going through as the bottom so as to make it as great as possible for me. I know guys that prefer to top and I know guys that simply refuse to ever be the bottom. aside from physical discomfort issues (which is certainly the case for some guys), the most articulate response I've received to my queries of 'why not' have been along the lines of 'I ain't gonna be no one's bitch'. transparently pointless and silly machismo to the core. but as the author pointed out, they're still as gay as I am, no matter how macho their self-wrought 'total top' image makes them out to be.