wow! you know i've never really thought of it before... especially like that. as of right now all i know is being a bottom. and i still have yet to recieve anal sex. all ive ever done is oral sex in which i of coarse was the one going down. i had one guy who started to go down on me but i dont know if i didnt like the way he did it or if i just didn't like it. but i know im not predisposed to 'topping' a guy. i just kinda fall, without a second thought, into being the submissive role. but i have to admit i do want to know the pleasure of topping. though seeing as im still an anal virgin im in no rushto find out for sure. though i will say this i wont let a man in unless in a serious term relationship. guys who are just looking for fun... you just get my hand... and depending on if i like you enough... my mouth. but only because i have an oral fixation. >:P lol

well put dude love to hear more of your thoughts cyrus!