Submitted by Mario (not verified) on April 8, 2009 - 16:59.
Just like others said there are total bottoms just like total tops, whatever floats their boat I suppose. We can never tell what gets people off, I love sucking cock and fucking ass, and I like getting fucked (it's more of a personal thing for me so I like to be very close to someone who fucks me rather than be too casual about it, I know, I'm weird.) Once in a while I'll let someone suck me off but I'm picky about that too, quality of quantity I guess.
Would I play with someone who is a total top or a total bottom? Absolutely! Would I be their friend? Of course! Would I be their partner? Depends, but I've been in enough relationships to know that in the long run being fully versatile and being with someone who is either total top or total bottom can place a strain in a relationship, especially when you feel like your needs aren't being met. Opening up a relationship is an option, but I tend to be a fan of a total package deal and if it never happens oh well I'm happy enough in life to go through it solo. This doesn't work for everyone however.
I used to feel the same way about total tops, but as I've gotten older and equally more jaded in life I let people do their own thing as long as they stay out of my way and try not to force their will upon me. As for the guys that want to pound your butt in their first message, that's an easy remedy, the delete button works wonders and I have no problems using it, if they become a pest they can always be blocked. Plenty of men out there to play with by far, have cock will travel is my motto.
Just like others said there
Just like others said there are total bottoms just like total tops, whatever floats their boat I suppose. We can never tell what gets people off, I love sucking cock and fucking ass, and I like getting fucked (it's more of a personal thing for me so I like to be very close to someone who fucks me rather than be too casual about it, I know, I'm weird.) Once in a while I'll let someone suck me off but I'm picky about that too, quality of quantity I guess.
Would I play with someone who is a total top or a total bottom? Absolutely! Would I be their friend? Of course! Would I be their partner? Depends, but I've been in enough relationships to know that in the long run being fully versatile and being with someone who is either total top or total bottom can place a strain in a relationship, especially when you feel like your needs aren't being met. Opening up a relationship is an option, but I tend to be a fan of a total package deal and if it never happens oh well I'm happy enough in life to go through it solo. This doesn't work for everyone however.
I used to feel the same way about total tops, but as I've gotten older and equally more jaded in life I let people do their own thing as long as they stay out of my way and try not to force their will upon me. As for the guys that want to pound your butt in their first message, that's an easy remedy, the delete button works wonders and I have no problems using it, if they become a pest they can always be blocked. Plenty of men out there to play with by far, have cock will travel is my motto.