Submitted by MapplethorpeLives (not verified) on January 24, 2009 - 03:48.
Many Bisexual/Gay men fantasize almost each and every time they have sex with a partner, and there's nothing wrong with it. Even heterosexuals are like this.
Not necessarily to porn/scenes from porn, but just sexual fantasies.
I've talked to Psychologists about this too and they've told me how it's completely normal and how a lot of people do fantasize during sex.
I know a bisexual woman who told me how she does not fantasize at all during sex and for her to get off she has to see live sex but she's majorly into group sex, and she's an exhibitionist/voyeur.
I've had this happen a few times and at first it freaked me out but it doesn't happen all the time and it's not something that I do on purpose, it just happens out of nowhere.
Don't worry about it, you probably just have a very active fantasy life and a very healthy imagination!
Porn/Erotica is ALL about this, just look at Tom of Finland's erotic art that has men that have impossible cartoonish bodies full of muscles and elephant hung cocks, or just look at the number of gay/bisexual porns that have fantasies in their plots.
They're just thoughts, fantasies, remember that most fantasies are that, just fantasies and they're not going to happen or go about the way you want them to in your head, and it's not a bad thing and I know many same gender couples of gay/bisexual men where they do watch porn before/during having sex, or they'll talk about their fantasies as they're having sex.
I'm personally not a big fan of watching porn while having sex but many people are of all genders/sexual orientations.
My ex is a bisexual man and we would talk about our sexual fantasies while we had sex and it didn't bother me at all when he would fantasize about other men/women/trans people or having different types of sex with them besides the vanilla sex that he and I were having together right then.
I'm not into scat but for the guy that fantasizes about it, look up FAQs on scat as they are out there and they will tell you the answers to the questions that you have.
Many Bisexual/Gay men
Many Bisexual/Gay men fantasize almost each and every time they have sex with a partner, and there's nothing wrong with it. Even heterosexuals are like this.
Not necessarily to porn/scenes from porn, but just sexual fantasies.
I've talked to Psychologists about this too and they've told me how it's completely normal and how a lot of people do fantasize during sex.
I know a bisexual woman who told me how she does not fantasize at all during sex and for her to get off she has to see live sex but she's majorly into group sex, and she's an exhibitionist/voyeur.
I've had this happen a few times and at first it freaked me out but it doesn't happen all the time and it's not something that I do on purpose, it just happens out of nowhere.
Don't worry about it, you probably just have a very active fantasy life and a very healthy imagination!
Porn/Erotica is ALL about this, just look at Tom of Finland's erotic art that has men that have impossible cartoonish bodies full of muscles and elephant hung cocks, or just look at the number of gay/bisexual porns that have fantasies in their plots.
They're just thoughts, fantasies, remember that most fantasies are that, just fantasies and they're not going to happen or go about the way you want them to in your head, and it's not a bad thing and I know many same gender couples of gay/bisexual men where they do watch porn before/during having sex, or they'll talk about their fantasies as they're having sex.
I'm personally not a big fan of watching porn while having sex but many people are of all genders/sexual orientations.
My ex is a bisexual man and we would talk about our sexual fantasies while we had sex and it didn't bother me at all when he would fantasize about other men/women/trans people or having different types of sex with them besides the vanilla sex that he and I were having together right then.
I'm not into scat but for the guy that fantasizes about it, look up FAQs on scat as they are out there and they will tell you the answers to the questions that you have.